Spotted Narissistic

I was watching "Honey, We're killing our kids." I saw 2 young girls and parents are overweight. As I was watching, there is a younger sister who is very shy and having hard time interact with other people. So, the woman encourage her to involve dance class after school so she would be able to learn how to have social life and help her to become healthy.

I saw a father who refuse to leave his youngest daughter. He is the only father who stay and watch at the dance class. Now I can see why the youngest daughter always feel so intimated by him. He's controling her and watch her every moves she makes. That's how I able to spotted him of being controling her.

Here is another example of having Narissistic parent (or both), I did watch this movie a couple times but it never crossed my mind until I watch again after I already had the experience of having Narissistic X. You might have already watch or heard this, Ever After: A Cinderella Story. Where Danielle who tries so hard to please her stepmother just by earn her love which she will never gives the love to her. There are Narissistic parent who is just like the stepmother and what's worst, at least one child (or both) will become Narissistic just like the parent such as one stepsister is like her stepmother. While the youngest stepsister is not Narissistic, so that's how I started to notice more and more.

My first boyfriend, X-Fiancé who has stepfather who treated him the same way as he was being treated from. He tries so hard to please him to earn his love. Everything he does never able to do right under his stepfather's eyes. That's why he tends to overeating. He still not able to accept and move on. He still desprately need someone to love him and to be accepted. He will never have that for rest of his life until he finally accept and leave him, forever. Which it is impossible to do, every child deserves and needs to be loved. So, that's why they kept on try to please their parent(s).

Wow! I can see more and more on tv although we might not realize what are those. It is common. I am able to started to see everywhere, there are people at work, stores, park and even in my family. It's so amazing. It's like an eye-opener for me.

I'm going to Gergoria very soon. Now, since I've learn about Narissitic, there are certain family members that I do not look foward to see. Especially one of them is the A type, Aggression as I mention earlier.

May God protect and guide children who has abusive parent (or stepparent).