Chemistry

I don't mean a major of Chemistry in class. I meant chemistry between men and women. I've been reading or hearing that word "chemistry" when they search for a connection or bonding with that person. Funny thing is that I did search for that. If there's no chemistry then we are not made for each other. Every guy that I met is all chemistry involve. I wonder is it really for lust and not love? Feelings for him is for lust... is Chemistry means lust?

I decided to date some guys that wasn't chemistry invovle so I did. I met one. I do like him alot but I don't know if I do love him or not. I do know that there isn't chemistry. So that means no lust and no love? Or do I love him just that there isn't chemistry but to care is the love. To care about him and thinking of him is love? I was anixious to see him because I enjoy his company. Everyday to see him then I get bored but to see him once a week then I don't get bored and we just catch up and get to know one another.

One thing I don't understand is that every guy I meet is usually broke or doesn't have the job or bad credit. I heard from somewhere that it is best to have relationship with someone who isn't have bad credit.

I'm starting to thinking about dating millionare because I'm tired of dating guys who poorer than me or bad credits or try to take advantage for my money even I'm poor myself. It does sound like I'm "gold-digger" if I want to go date millioniare but truth is I'm tired of dating men who taking advantage of my money when I want to date millioniare that I knew he wouldn't take advantage of my money... or is he??

5 scary times for your heart

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Our resident cardiologist, Arthur Agatston, MD, told Prevention that the first question he asks patients when they walk in his office is “How’s the traffic?”

It’s not small talk but a valid medical query. Being stuck in traffic raises blood pressure and triples heart attack risk. So if a patient has had a tough commute and her BP is elevated, he’ll recheck it later in the appointment. There are other surprising situations and times when the chance of heart attack rises dramatically. If you or someone you know has a history of heart trouble, here’s when to be watchful.

1. First thing in the morning

The risk of heart attack increases 40% in the morning, Harvard researchers estimate.

As you awaken, your body secretes adrenaline and other stress hormones, increasing blood pressure and a demand for oxygen. Your blood is also thicker and harder to pump because you’re partially dehydrated. All this taxes the heart.

Protect yourself: Build some time into your schedule so you can hit the snooze button and wake up slowly. If you’re a morning exerciser, warm up thoroughly so as not to additionally stress the heart. And if you’re on a beta-blocker, take it before bed so the medication is at full strength in the am.

2. On Monday mornings especially

Science shows there’s good reason to dread the first day of the work week.

Twenty percent more heart attacks occur on this day, probably because people are stressed and depressed about returning to work.

Protect yourself: Relax on Sunday, but try not to sleep in. Getting up early on Monday after sleeping late Saturday and Sunday can raise blood pressure even more because your body is fatigued and its natural rhythms are out of whack. Try to maintain a regular sleep/wake schedule all week.

3. After an indulgent meal

A five-course, calories-be-damned dinner can have an immediate impact on your heart health. Studies show that high-fat, high-carb meals constrict blood vessels, making blood more prone to clotting.

Protect yourself: If you must indulge, keep your portion sizes reasonable. A daily aspirin will also help prevent blood “stickiness.”

4. During unusually vigorous exercise

Having a heart attack while shoveling snow is a classic example of this.

The heart attack occurs because the victim isn’t accustomed to that kind of effort and stress hormones skyrocket, causing blood pressure and heart rate to jump.

Protect yourself: Regular exercise protects your heart. But increase your intensity level gradually.

5. At the podium

From the heart’s perspective, public speaking can be similar to unaccustomed exercise.

Extreme nervousness raises blood pressure, heart rate, and adrenaline levels, all of which can make the presentation itself a secondary worry.

Protect yourself: To counter these effects, some of my patients take a beta-blocker before speaking, flying, or doing anything that makes them overly anxious.