Goals...
Having goals would help you to live because you stay focus to achieve. If you had achieve a goal then continue to make another one. It can be short term or long term goals. It is depend on what kind of goals do you want or do.
Sometimes I do find pointless. However, if you do not have goal then it is pointless. It doesn't have to be getting married and have children or getting married without children to be your goal. Everybody have their goal to get married and have children or some people do have goal not to get married and have children.
What's important is to live is to have a goal. "To live is to have a goal" (haha, did I come up to that quote myself?) Do you have a goal that help you to movitate and keep going facing challenge and learn from the mistake or learn from someone else's mistake to prevent from getting the same mistake.
Or do you just go and work from 9 to 5 boing job and saving money for retirement. Or do you go to 9 to 5 fun job to learn and challenge?
Well, no one wants to work but how do you use or put an effort in a job as in a good way?
Or if you do have a boring job 9 to 5 then do something outside of work that would do for the fun even it is not easy to do. Like for example, I even thought about write a script (and maybe novel) and hope that maybe there would be a movie out of it. It is possible that it is wishful thinking but at least to have a goal that helps you to keep going. Like research something before make a book that way you would be able to learn while you research weather or not you write lousy script/novel. Often times the first time really sucks until time goes on it will improve.
Or if you get bored with that then change a different goal like go and learn to dance at the dance class. Or put on hold for a while and add a new goal... When you feel refreshing, start back on writing.
What's the purpose? Make a goal. Even if it means to change it, don't have to be stuck on one thing.
Sometimes in life that you can't change because of money and bills but add a new goal outside of work. Even it is seem like work but at least you can pick your own time to do whatever you like. Just for the fun. Find something instead of watching TV. Because sometimes there's nothing else to watch on tv even it is over 300 channels.
Think about it, wasting money on technology or waste money on a goal? Which one is benifit? That is depend on you. If you think technology is benefit then buy them. If you think goal would be a benefit then buy and do them.
A purpose? Keep going and learn along the way and treat this life as once-a-lifetime weather or not you believe in recarnation (sp? means that you will live in the next life).
Find a spiritual, if that helps? Or search within yourself (heart, guts, mind, and/or emotional) .... not the outside...(like church, sacred book, or/and other spiritual books) But if the outside helps then continue. But if the inside helps then continue, Do what you want to do.
Don't worry about what other people thinks. Instead of talk to people who you worry about what they think, go and find other people who have similar goal where you know that people support you because it is similar goal as you have.
Or better yet, use those negative to boost your ambitions to prove them wrong....
What do you think? Does that give you the food for thoughts?
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