Sorry about down below that there is very small and fine prints. No body can read that. Well, I know I can't. Anyway...
Men lie no more than women, but they tend to lie to make themselves look better, while women are more likely to lie to make the other person feel better.
Extroverts tend to lie more than introverts, Feldman found in similar research involving a job-interview situation. Respectly from this website: Why we lie? (I lost the website. Sorry, I will go back to find it when I have a chance.)
I thought that was very interesting about extroverts tend to lie more than introverts. I didn't know that. I'm intorvert, I rarely lie. I did caught myself lie is just to make the other person feel better. I notice that I do that sometimes. I do notice that women do lie just by make me feel better which I already knew better
I remember one time I had an beautiful outfit. There's a guy who said that my outfit doesn't make me pretty. It makes me looks pale. I did felt insult. I left and cried. There's a lady who comes in the bathroom and asked me what's wrong? I told her about it. She said, "no, that's not true, you looks beautiful with that outfit." I said, "You were just saying that to make me feel better." I caught her off-guard. She was totally unexpected. She said, "No, that isn't true. That dress looks great on you." I said, "Thanks." She seems satified with that and left. However, I went back to my cabin (that time it was summer camp) and changed. I came back. That guy said that he was sorry that he offended me. I told him that's okay. At least, you were telling the truth. I didn't mention even though it is kinda too bold upfront. I came home and I put on that outfit again. I asked my mom, "Does that outfit makes me looked pale?" I knew that my mom is telling the truth. She always does. She looked at me with my outfit and she said, "yes, it does." I said, "Thank You." That is the answer I want to hear. I get rid of the outfit
Now, I did notice that men tend to lie just by make themselves look better and that I consider a big turn-off. I dumped a guy before because of that. LOL Seriously, I never like those kind of guys who only think of themselves and not others. It's interesting because I'm a woman and I do think of others before me most of the times. Or I manage to think of both ways as in benfits for both of us.
I'm getting sleepy.
Good nite.
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