dream...or nightmare?

I had a strange dream other night. I am currently dating someone but this dream I am dating this same guy, the moment I blink my eyes, I saw John, the narriastic personality disorder. *sigh* But I do know for sure that he doesn't have NPD. He doesn't drain my energy out but... he's being too vague half the time. I am having second thought about him. Don't get me wrong, he's really sweet guy but I have to ask more speaific question to know what's he really talking about.





For example, he did asked me do you know that two street names (wouldn't put a real names and numbers) and I have no idea. So I asked my dad, my dad thought for a moment. He said that's where the mall is at. So I send him the messages (via, thru converstation text). I admit at first I thought he was asking for direction then I realize I was assuming. Then he send back the message, yes that's the one. That was it. No clear or directly messages or whatsoever. I'm totally clueless what is this about as soon as I realize I was assuming then I put aside of the assumption and asked, "Ya being vague, what's important about that mall place?" Then he send message back, oh I'm sorry, I meant to meet there. I realize that he prefer to meet halfway to the mall. I don't mind but at least be clear what's about the first place. He wasn't.





Before that, he did mention about taking a week off and have vaction but he also mention about not going on vaction during that week because of doctor appointment. So, I was left in the hang. I don't know what his plans or what does he wants. Later, I learned that he's going to take a vaction with me but I haven't take days off from work because he haven't decided what to do. He did in the last minutes. I was like, "sorry, but I can't leave my work because I didn't request days off." He seems rather disappointed. I told him that you told me that you haven't decided and you are considering to stay with your doctor appointment. He's being too vague and not clear with direct. I have no idea what's he's planning to do.

Plus, he own 3 credit cards and he also owe alot of money as well as IRS. So, he's really broke and in a bad credit. I just learned that recently. I couldn't believe that he's paying for meals, trips(yellowstone park), and other things. He uses credit cards. I was kinda disappointed, too. Because I knew that (it may never happens) if I married to him, I would get a bad credit even I have a good credit before I met him. Yeah, it is ridculas(sp) but it is true fact that "us" women get the bad credits because of MEN, if we are married to them!! (mind you men, I know there are women out there who have bad credits, too, just not men). It just that it is soo annoying that I think it should be seprate and not put in two as one when comes to money situation.

For me, I notice that I'm keep meeting men who is lousy when comes to finically. As I mention before (or maybe not), maybe I just date millioniare, is there such thing as one (or more?).

Is it normal for guys to being too vague? I don't like it. I really don't.