Lies, Lies, and Lies

Yeah, I know. First, there is going to be a kinda venting moments with disappointed.

Knowing that my cousin was raised by NPD grandma. So, he married one. It's really sad. After my bad experience with my ex, I already know who I'm dealing with. However, my parents doesn't. Espeically my mom, she is still clueless around NPD.I told mom that she has NPD. I explain a lot about it. My mom wasn't happy that she lied about her son who had allergic reaction from tick and needed money to pay hosptial bill. So, she send through wire money. Next 2 days, she called from Tenn and having fun at the aquirium. Staying hotel, she bragged that she got the money from the wired other day. That's NPD. And she even asked for more money.

My mom asked her husband who staying home (he didn't go with her and he had no idea where his wife is at), he told my mom that tick never bitten his son. And he doesn't have any allergic reaction. Of course not, she use my parents money and left to Tenn. I already knew that she's lying.

My mom said that she is very good with money that's why my cousin is giving her resonpsible. Ha! I told mom it's like trust your dog to watch your meal for you.*sigh* they're bankrupt and they have no choice but living with her mother (grandma). They had lost home. Now, she asking more money. My mom kept saying something that she doesn't make sense. I told mom, the more you talk to her and askes question the more she'll lied. My mom went ahead and called her again to ask questions. I warned my mom that she would not take no for an answer.

My mom did said no but cousin's wife kept manpluating to make my mom feel guilty. Also, my mom found out that she telling 2 different stories on the phone. I told my mom that NPD will keep telling lies even the truth will set you *free*. My mom said she wants to help the babies (which is now they have 2 boys). I told her, there is nothing you can do. NPD will keep all the money. Best thing you can do as I told my mom is keep sending Birthday and Christmas gifts to them. No matter what. Keep on sending and never the money. No matter what. Cousin's wife will kept it all the money for herself.

Something else that my mom told me that she kept asking cousin's wife why she didn't ask for help from her own parents that she have. She said that either they are not home or out of town the same thing. I told mom that I'm willing to bet that her parents stop giving her the money because of all the lies she kept saying and using them for the money.

My mom also said that it is same with her brother who always making up lies just by getting more money. I told mom that he does have the same NPD. That I already knew. Just that my parents doesn't. It's sad that kids are affecting by NPD parent (or both). Even though they never pysical abuse but they do recieve mental and spiritual abuse. It is almost the same as "Ever After"Cinderella. One young boy will become like Cinderella while the other will be like the Stepmother. Sometimes both will have NPD. It's sad that happens for gerenalition and the next.

Like I said, "just do your best as you can by giving the love that they need even in long distance." The rest is up to them.

OFF TOPIC:
Reese is doing good. She wants to play again. I did play with her for about an hour before I leave work because I know that I would be too tired to play when I come home but she still wants to play. I just throw a ball. Other time she doesn't want me to throw the ball. She wants me to chase her while she has the ball. *haha*

My parents are doing good and so do I. My legs are tired and so my feet but since I bought an excellent quiality pair of shoes, I notice the pain are reduce. It's still there but not so painful like the first 2 weeks that I have had. I'm glad for my brand new shoes. I needed them.

Smile!